in the shower just now, i was thinking that i miss the little stuff in a relationship more than the big stuff. but that's not exactly right. granted, i'm not sure what fits in the 'big stuff' category or how to separate those things out (maybe everything is the little stuff).. but that aside.
i think what is more accurate is that i think about the little things more. grocery shopping with someone. sitting in the movie theater, talking before and after, and the various ways that hands and arms touch during. curling up and warming up someone's feet. walking arm in arm in cool or cold weather. sitting in an airport together. watching someone in their morning or nightly routine. this is what i think about. i think about other stuff too, but..