i think that i'm a kind person. nice enough. at the very least i think i'm getting better. i'm not sure that i would classify myself as formerly an ass (though i'm sure exes would have something to say about that claim) but in terms of letting fewer things bother me and seeing longer term than a particularly bad moment. i would like to think in the daily struggle to not be a jerk that i am doing well. but we all think better of ourselves than is actually the case. when asked about hobbies, i should mention this.
some things will always be the way they are