i have this friend, who i have written about before incidentally, who keeps getting in long and serious relationships with absolute dummies. and i don't know if i just don't know most people well enough to see their patterns or if other people learn faster or what but it is like watching a wreck happen slowly every year or so.
my only guess is that she looks for what she wants and never for what she needs. impulse is interesting but not for very long. i am trying to learn from observing.
leave her crying all the time